"After awhile you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. And you learn that love doesn't mean security, and you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises......."
-Veronica A. Shoftstall

I saw this quote and it summed up perfectly what I've always felt and not been able to express for years...So what is security?  It's letting go of something/ someone that you find your "security" in and finding comfort in the feeling of free falling into the unexpected and unforeseen ( ie. like when your car dies in the middle of the road at 8:45am and you have to be at work in 15 minutes or when your lover leaves you).